Talk at Sayad Khan’s funeral!
by Peter Bohmer, January 17, 2025, Los Angeles.
Sayad Khan (Sy) was my close friend who lit up every room he was in. We have been close friends since he moved to Olympia in 2009, one year after his wife, Savvina, whom he loved so much and was so proud of, and who loved him so deeply. He brought LA to Olympia and Olympia to LA. In his last few days, Sy could hear us tell him how important he was to us and occasionally grip our hands or rub our cheek. The ICU at the hospital said he had more visitors, family and friends than anyone ever had before.
I remember Sy spending Christmas day with us at our Olympia home, three weeks ago. My four kids, one of whom is here today, my two grandchildren and my brother adored his kindness, his interest in them, his sense of humor and his liveliness. We watched the Lakers play Golden State and he teased me like he often did about switching from a Laker fan to the Warriors.
I worked closely with Sy in the Palestine Action of South Sound (PASS) where he took the lead in raising tens of thousands of dollars for the children of Gaza and helped organize many of our demonstrations and events and was a magnetic emcee. He was emotionally, intellectually, personally and tirelessly involved in supporting the Palestinian people and against the U.S. support for Israel’s genocidal war against Gaza. His ability to talk to people with different views and respectfully educate them was impressive. Sy was an active member of the Islamic Center of Olympia and played a major role in connecting its members to the movement for justice and peace in Palestine. We took part in the weekly Free Palestine vigils in downtown Olympia. Working together made us even closer. I have lost a brother.
He mc’ed and dj’ed many events for many community groups and gatherings and was in constant demand. Sy was on the board and an active and valued member of the Rachel Corrie Foundation, named for Rachel Corrie. Rachel was a young Olympia resident murdered by the Israeli military in Gaza in 2003 while peacefully trying to stop a home demolition. Sy was a close friend of her parents, Cindy and Craig Corrie.
Sy was active in and a leader in many communities. He did a weekly radio show on KAOS with music from the South Asian diaspora and participated in a lively and beautifully dressed South Asian dance troupe. He worked at Sandy Flats, where he helped manage the 24 apartments for formerly homeless people and of course, interacted in a profound and humane way with all the tenants and staff. Sayed connected these diverse subcultures and made every person he interacted with feel special. They were all special to him.
Sy was the rock and center of his large extended family, a totally devoted and loving son of his mother, Rahil Khan, his wife, Savvina Chowdhury, his son Muhammad Khan, and his brother, Sage Khan.
Sy positively affected so many people. He was charismatic, kind, and caring, who brought out the best in all of us, a leader in the best sense of the word.
Sy, I miss you so much and will always miss you. You will never be forgotten. You live on in the memory of all of us.
Sy Khan Presente!